In Our Garden of Eden

Sights from our own Garden of Eden....

What Happened In....

What happened in the past four months since I wrote the blog post "I Joined The 21st Century Yesterday on February 18, 2010 ? Believe it or not, a number of things did happen other than the fact that I became overly absorbed by Facebook . Here is my update:

It was an extra cold winter. It was an extra long winter. At the worst point, it was only 4 degrees here. Our ponds were frozen solid (6 inches of ice). We would bust the ice with a sledge hammer for the horses and in a short period of time it was refrozen. The water faucet near the barn froze up and at the worst point we were filling up five gallon buckets in the bath tub and loading them in the four-wheeler trailer and hauling water to the main barnyard, goat pen, chicken pen as well as to the blind horse habitat. Needless to say, winter is NOT our favorite time of year ! 

My Niece & Nephew made a short and unexpected trip to visit us here at the ranch. They brought along their precious 2 year old daughter. The weather was pretty good considering it was early March. 

 We all had so much fun !!!!

Another Niece & Nephew with their four kids came to spend a weekend with us during Spring Break. We expected fairly warm weather and planned to camp out but the weather turned cold so we camped in but did go up on our mountain ridge to our camp site and start a campfire. We hauled 3 of the kids in the 4-wheeler trailer, which they thoroughly enjoyed. Thanks to a windy day they were able to fly the cool kite that they brought with them. We drank hot chocolate, roasted marshmallows, sang, laughed and told funny stories. A great time was had by all !

In March "some sorry excuse for a human being" dumped a very pregnant Momma Cat at our barn. We set up a large pet porter in the house for her on a Tuesday and on Thursday she had five kittens. Two days after they were born we had the worst snow storm that we have had during the 7 years that we have lived here. At 8 weeks of age my Brother-In-Law adopted 2 of them. We took the Momma to the vet to be spayed  after the kittens were weaned. Now the Momma Cat and 3 of her kittens have become the newest members of our very large but very happy family.

   

We had an unexpected and unwelcome snow fall. Better yet, let's call it a blizzard, because in this part of country on March 2Oth it is time to be working in the garden not to be shoveling 12+ inches of snow so that you can open the back door.  On March 10th and on March 15th,  two of my little cousins celebrated their very 1st birthday. They are on opposite sides of my family and are both the first born of the NEWEST generation of our families. Happy Birthday Baby J.R. and Baby J.W.

I took a road trip to the city and spent Easter Weekend with several of my Nieces and Nephews. I enjoyed two separate Easter Egg Hunts and a cook out at the lake. Very Fun !!!! April 4th of was one of my Niece's 18th birthday and April 5th was one of my other Niece's 22nd birthday..... April 10th was one of my Nephew's birthday, he turned 21 years old....April 16th was another one of my Nephew's birthday, he turned 25 years old.....April 27th was another Niece's birthday, she turned 20 years old. April is a Happy...Happy...Happy Birthday Month !!!!!!!!!!!!!

My Brother-In-Law was approved for SS/Disability in April. He received a near fatal traumatic brain injury in 2008. His recovery has been LONG hard road. He continues to do better with each passing day, for which we thank the Good Lord. As a celebration he and I went to the mountain top tower and enjoyed a day of "playing tourist" ! We went to the top of the tower and took lots of photos and he got his very first good look, actually a bird's eye view of the area he now calls home.

I went to my Niece's College Choir Concert in May. The timing was perfect for me to attend since she had no idea but that night she was presented with a special award. So proud of her and so happy for her. She just turned 21 years old in Feb. 2010.

I reunited with a long lost friend. It had been 17 years since we lost track of each other. I went out to dinner with her and her family in early May. She has a great husband and two awesome sons. I made friends with the three year old by offering him the cherry off the top of the fried ice cream I ordered for dessert.

I went to watch my 18 year old Niece walk across the stage as she received her high school diploma. Her school colors are black and gold, so she dyed her hair black and gold. She made sure to ask me to let her know if we could see her her hair color from from our seats the auditorium... Yes, we sure did !

Good job M. and Congratulations to YOU !!!!

MyHoney celebrated his birthday in May. His sister and his grown daughter made their very first visit to the ranch. He gave them the grand tour on the 4-wheeler. We all enjoyed ourselves immensely. And on June 9th, 2010, my stepdaughter D. turned 18 years old......She is ALL grown up now !!!!

May all of her dreams come true....

So you get the idea...just because I hadn't posted anything on my blog, doesn't mean that there was nothing to blog about around here. So much to do...........................so little time !!!!

Just Blame It On FaceBook !!!!

Okay, I must admit that I've been a bit distracted lately. Yes, there has been a lot going on around here since my last blog post in February. But I must confess that now that I have a computer I have no reasonable excuse for neglecting my blog. My excuse is not reasonable but it may be considered understandable. My excuse is that I have become totally absorbed by Face Book. So, I've decided whenever you need an excuse for something, for anything at all...............from now on...................... JUST BLAME IT ON FACE BOOK !!!!

It's not like my Face Book account is new or anything, I've had it for a couple of years now. My cousin talked me into setting up a Face Book account so that I could view her photos. I would check it every now and then whenever I was checking my email at the public library but I had no idea of what I was missing out on. I had a few people on my friends list but not many. Now, I check it every single day and I have 112 friends. All 112 people on my list are people I actually know or at least used to know. When MyHoney joined FB and was adding people to his friend's list from school, I thought "those are people you haven't seen or talked to in 30 plus years". Now I've added people all the way back to first grade (1967-1968). It has been fun.

Face Book is an amazing thing. It's almost like a magic trick. You can see it with your own eyes but still have no idea of how it works. You just know that it does work. It also amazes me how little we have all changed. Personality wise we are still pretty much the same people as we were in first grade, maybe just a better version of ourselves. What I liked about a certain person back then is STILL what I like about them now, thirty-plus years later. The thing about friends from that long ago is they knew us way back when. They saw us go through those awkward stages, saw us with braces on our teeth, our first really bad haircut or the goofy clothes that we thought were cool back then. They knew our parents and/or our brothers and sisters. They rode the same school bus with us and some of them came to spend the night at our houses and spent most of the night, laughing and giggling during our slumber parties. Some of them remember our mom's special pot-roast and the names of our horses or the fact that we had a pet monkey. What people remember from so many years ago, is like a surprise package that you open and delight in how much of a surprise it is.

Having a teenage stepdaughter, I pay a lot of attention to what goes on with teenagers these days. On some points, I am amazed on some points I am shocked. But each generation has their own time, their own way, their own style. I am often overwhelmed by the amount of information they are willing to share and especially how personal in nature some of that information is. I've asked myself "what would it have been like to have been a teenager during the "Internet Era" ???? I remember passing notes in class to tell someone something really important and if the content of that note had been revealed it would have been devastating to say the least. Keeping secrets was the real test of how good of a friend you were. If you failed to keep a friend's secret you were labeled as permanently ineligible for best friend status.
(Not qualifying as BFF, not even BF-FAW = best friend for a week, much less
FOREVER )

I remember, as a teenager,being very secretive and NOT wanting others to know what I was up to and where I was going, what I was doing or with whom....now days, it seems like everyone knows everything and no detail is too personal to be shared. Ayyy, the times have changed but human nature does not. This leads me to believe that there is more to this "sharing" thing than meets the eye. I continue to analyze, research and study "teenager" issues and when I can't figure out something I turn to the "experts" - other teenagers outside of our household. I've told them if I am brave enough to ask the question then they can be brave enough to answer the question, also adding that if there is anything that they feel uncomfortable with answering, that we can just skip it, no problem.

Another aspect of this Face Book thing, I considered how that if they had FB in the 1950's that MY MOM WOULD HAVE BEEN THE QUEEN OF FACE BOOK. My Mom would have loved FB. She knew everyone. She went everywhere. She was a social butterfly. She was networking before networking was invented. If anyone needed to know what was going on....all they had to do is ask. She knew what everyone was up to at all times. She was one of those 1950's era teenagers that kept a black & white scrapbook of her and her friend's hanging out in town at McClard's and Cooks Ice Cream. She had many photographs of them swimming at Camp Charleston, in their "way-to-cool" - "old-timey" swimsuits and cruising Central Avenue in those (now) "vintage" automobiles often with those fin-type fenders,since many of them were convertibles they went riding around with the top down. They were the collective definition of "cool" teenagers. When I was a kid, I thought of her era as being just like the movie "American Graffiti". It seemed so clean-cut, simple and safe compared to being a teenager in the 1970's.

Now compare that to my stepdaughter's teenage era with Internet Access, Cell Phones, Text Messages, Emails, Instant Messages, I-Phones, Picture Phones, YouTube, My Space and dear ole Face Book....like having a magic wand...poof....with one click and you are connected !!

Shall I dare ask what modern technology will add as a new dimension by time my stepdaughter's children are teenagers ????

As the old advertising campaign slogan goes: "It's a mind-boggling thing" !!!!